Wednesday, July 5, 2023

PARENTAL GUIDANCE (POST 5)

Create an open and safe environment for your child to express their thoughts, feelings, and concerns. Encourage active listening, validate their emotions, and provide guidance and support when needed.

Tuesday, July 4, 2023

PARENTAL GUIDANCE POST 4 (ENGLISH)

Post 4: How to manage teenage children ? Part 1 1. Understand their feelings 2. Give little more freedom like a kite in your hand 3. Children should feel that you are supportive to them ( not fault finding parent) 4. Spend little more time (quality time) 5. Talk about their personal life, feelings, etc (Not advicing always whenever talking to them) 6. Should not be giving advice always. Then children will avoid talking 7. Make little interests on the things, they have interest: so that you can talk on that subject. 8. Treat them like friends 9. Make their friends as your friends 10. Make them feel responsible too. 11. Attack the issue, not the person 12. Listen to them fully. Allow them to speak out fully. 13. Do not jump into conclusions with our past experiences 14. They should not isolate themself while handling mobile phones. Handle their phones often. If they fear or refuse to hand over the phone, watch them carefully without affecting the relationship

PARENTAL GUIDANCE POST 3 (ENGLISH)

POST 3: High Achiever Vs Low Achiever Factors determining to the above: Clarity of goals Friends Influence Family Influence Influence of teachers Environment support Too much control Too much freedom Intelligence level Emotional factor Psychological factor Writing skills Reading skills Reasoning skills Family History Physical Illness Parents having mental illness Alcoholic parent

PARENTAL GUIDANCE POST 2 (ENGLISH)

POST 2: Present immediate challenges of every parent are: 1. Make the child to perform well in academic 2. Inculcating good habits and good behaviors Parents, my first priority is : You take care of yourself first. You are the backbone of the family. Everyone is busy with their own schedules. No one has the time to enquire about your health and take care of you. Please give importance to your self-care, both physical and mental well-being. You should manage work-life balance You should manage stress well You should manage the emotions, triggered by others You should not hesitate to take support wherever needed

Thursday, October 27, 2011

PARENTAL GUIDANCE POST 1 (ENGLISH)

Why children lose interest in studies ? or show less interest in studies. They have to be shown the clear path. Let them have a clear dream or goal about their future. Absence of any dream or goal, will make every work as a punishment. We can explain that there are many steps to reach your goal. 'Your present standard (class) is one such step. When you move every step forward, you will be becoming more powerful and confident'.