PARENTAL GUIDANCE POST 4 (ENGLISH)

Post 4: How to manage teenage children ? Part 1 1. Understand their feelings 2. Give little more freedom like a kite in your hand 3. Children should feel that you are supportive to them ( not fault finding parent) 4. Spend little more time (quality time) 5. Talk about their personal life, feelings, etc (Not advicing always whenever talking to them) 6. Should not be giving advice always. Then children will avoid talking 7. Make little interests on the things, they have interest: so that you can talk on that subject. 8. Treat them like friends 9. Make their friends as your friends 10. Make them feel responsible too. 11. Attack the issue, not the person 12. Listen to them fully. Allow them to speak out fully. 13. Do not jump into conclusions with our past experiences 14. They should not isolate themself while handling mobile phones. Handle their phones often. If they fear or refuse to hand over the phone, watch them carefully without affecting the relationship